The full import of what happened recently to Kristine Patico Koumentakos in Maryland has finally sunk in. It is so blasphemous that it is horrifying. Fr Raymond Velencia of the OCA publicised intimate details of a woman’s life that he heard in confession and counselling. Fr Alexey Karlgut of the Syosset apparat said the following to the victim, “As to allegations of violation of ‘pastoral confidentiality’ it should be stated that in the teaching, Doctrine, and Canonical rules, regulations, and tribunal for internal discipline and government of the Orthodox Church no such concept exists”. Rev Velencia was a “goals-oriented priest”, according to Rev Karlgut, and he is still the rector of St Matthew parish in Maryland.
Herman Swaiko is the diocesan ordinary responsible in this situation. Did he remove Rev Velencia for breaking the inviolability of the confessional? Did he discipline Rev Karlgut for supporting him?
NO!
He used Rev Karlgut in an attempt to force the victim to sign a waiver stating that she would not sue the Church over a legitimate grievance where the priest involved overstepped his authority. As bad as that is, it is not the open scandal of Herman supporting a priest who contemptuously broke the seal of the confessional. This is the sin against the Holy Spirit naked and unashamed. I know what the late Archbishop Kyprian would have done. He would have jumped in his car and talked to a friendly judge in Maryland. Vladyki Kyprian and the Maryland state troopers would have come up to Rev Velencia’s door. Vladyki would have kicked the door in, and a royal rumble between Vladyki and Velencia would have ensued. The Maryland state troopers would be there only to do the light work and pick up the pieces after Vladyki was finished. Velencia would have been dog-meat, and rightly so.
In my time, I have heard of only four instances where a priest violated the confessional, including this one. In three cases, the bishop responsible swooped in like an avenging angel and planted his size-12 firmly into the backside of the priest involved. The priests in these cases were defrocked so quickly that it seemed instantaneous. In this case, Herman Swaiko SUPPORTS the priest involved. This is clear prima facie evidence, even for the obtuse, that the OCA central apparat is EVIL.
Tsar Ivan Grozny After Killing His Son on 15 November 1581 (Ilya Repin, 1873)
This is what Herman Swaiko has done to Christ’s Church. He supports a priest who broke the seal of the confessional.
A PRIEST VIOLATED THE SANCTITY OF THE CONFESSIONAL AND ABUSED ONE OF HIS PARISHIONERS.
I shall NOT be silent. I shall NOT be quiet. There is NO possible justification or explanation for the public airing of private confidences told to a priest in confession and counselling. I believe that this is grounds for a legal suit. I stand under correction in this, but I think that attorneys, physicians, and clergy are responsible before the law if they break such confidence. It is a violation of secular law as well as being an offence in the Church sense.
I stand mute in the face of such EVIL. It is beyond words. Herman Swaiko has the responsibility to remove Rev Velencia from the clergy as expeditiously as possible, and to issue an apology to the entire Church for his laggardliness in so doing. If he does not act, it means that he has deposed himself. I know of no bishop who has ever shirked his duty in such a circumstance. This is the only time that I have heard of a bishop, either now or in the distant past, supporting a priest who broke the seal of confidentiality that all clergy enjoy.
If anyone supports Herman Swaiko or Raymond Velencia in this, you share their guilt in their sin against the Holy Spirit. What shall it take for this crucifixion to end? If the OCA Holy Synod refuses to act, shall one of the other local Churches step in to restore a proper Orthodox order? I would say to His Holiness Aleksei, “It is time to act. The inviolability of the confessional has been raped”.
Is there anyone listening, dear God?
Vara Drezhlo
Thursday 8 May 2008
Editor’s Note:
The details on this sad situation have already been published on the internet on the website Orthodox Christians for Accountability. The URL for the posting involved is:
http://www.ocanews.org/news/Koumentakos5.3.08.html (in English)
I support Nicholas and Kristine Koumentakos completely and unreservedly in this. We all owe them our prayers, thoughts, and material aid (if needed). God bless you, dear, I stand by your side.
UPDATE:
There has been quite a bit of discussion of this case on the Orthodox Christians for Accountability site. Let’s keep this simple. A priest violated the confidentiality of the confessional. Full stop. His bishop did not remove him. Full stop. Two priests, Alexey Karlgut and George Washburn (in his posts on the Stokoe site), appear to justify this abuse by their public statements. Full stop.
In a well-run church, Metropolitan Herman Swaiko would be deposed by the Holy Synod without delay, and Frs Raymond Velencia, Alexey Karlgut, and George Washburn would be defrocked immediately. In Rev Washburn’s case, it can be explained by the fact that he lacks a proper Orthodox formation as a priest. The other two have no such defence.
A priest has violated the confidentiality of the confessional and of counselling. Why, the old Okhrana was not as invasive! Mr Washburn, what is so difficult in that to grasp? Your lawyerly parsing is offensive and noisome. Withdraw it immediately, or stand accused of complicity in this. I would like to hear from the last two solid hierarchs in the OCA, Vladyki Job of Chicago and Vladyki Seraphim of Canada. Speak, sirs, and don’t let Herman’s bullying stop you!
This is truly too much of a muchness. When I think of what I saw at St Nick’s last Saturday and compare it with this rubbish, I weep. Either condemn this monstrous act or stand complicit with it. It is that simple.






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