Let’s keep it simple. Our everyday lives are the real venue of our spiritual life. How we treat our co-workers and how we treat those that we encounter daily will have more impact on the Judgement Day than how often we attend Liturgy (and I’m not denigrating the Liturgy). The Liturgy is the flower of our spiritual life… our everyday lives are its roots and stem. So, one can’t compartmentalise one’s life… if you do, you kill the spirit, no matter how often you frequent the services.
You’ll do OK if you keep your eyes on the prize. That’s good enough, and it’s all that you need in many cases…