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Sunday, 8 December 2013

NO TIP FOR YOU! I ALREADY GAVE THE MONEY TO GOD! Tips aren’t Optional… They’re How Waiters are Paid in America

00 Pastor's Applebee's Reciept. NO TIP FOR YOU. 07.12.13


Editor’s Note:

Read this through to the end. It’s why I oppose tithing, and why I detest the mindset that it creates. In any case, “tithing” is a quirky Evangelical notion; why should we pick up such arrant nonsense? The Church NEVER put a price on the Mysteries… that’s called simony, kids, and it sets up a nasty, self-righteous, and smug attitude in those who practise it. Truly, if the parish needs money, bingo is better spiritually, unbelievably (you see, it’s corporate and requires cooperative effort, it’s not something individual and pridefully personal). Anyone who advocates tithing wants to bring all sorts of Proddie nonsense into the Church that we don’t need. Tithing is insidious and corrosive… think on that.

OPPOSE “TITHING” WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT. God demands it of you…



I was a waitress at Applebee’s restaurant in St Louis MO. They fired me on Wednesday for posting a picture on Reddit.com of a note a customer left on a bill. I posted it on the web as a light-hearted joke. This didn’t even happen at my table. The note was for another server, who allowed me to take a picture of it at the end of the night. Someone scribbled on the receipt, “I give God 10 percent. Why do you get 18?” I assumed the customer’s signature was illegible, but I quickly started receiving messages containing Facebook profile links and websites, asking me to confirm the customer’s identity. I refused to confirm any of them, and all were incorrect. I worked with the Reddit moderators to remove any personal information. I wanted to protect both my fellow server and the customer. I had no intention of starting a witch-hunt or hurting anyone. Now, they’ve fired me.

The person who wrote the note came across an article about it, called the Applebee’s location, and demanded that they fire everyone… me, the server who allowed me to take the picture, the manager on duty at the time, the manager not on duty at the time, everyone. It seems that they fired me not because I misrepresented Applebee’s, not because I did anything illegal or against company policy, but because I embarrassed this person. In light of the situation, I’d like to say something for wait staff everywhere… we make 3.50 USD (115 Roubles. 3.75 CAD. 3.85 AUD. 2.50 Euros. 2.15 UK Pounds) an hour. Most of my pay-cheques are less than pocket change because I have to pay taxes on the tips I make.

After sharing my tips with hosts, bussers, and bartenders, I make less than 9 USD (295 Roubles. 9.60 CAD. 9.90 AUD. 6.50 Euros. 5.50 UK Pounds) an hour on average, before taxes. They expect me to skip bathroom breaks if we’re busy. I go hungry all day if I have several busy tables to work. They expect me to work until 01.30, then, I have to come in again at 10:30 to open the restaurant. I’ve worked 12-hour double shifts without a chance to even sit down. They expect me to portray a canned personality that they found is the least offensive to the greatest amount of people. They expect me to do all of this, every day, and receive change, or even nothing, in return. After all that, they can fire me for “embarrassing” someone who directly insulted their server on religious grounds.

In this economy, 3.50 USD an hour doesn’t cut it. I can’t pay half my bills. Like many, I’d love to see a reasonable non-tip-dependent wage system for service workers as they have in other countries. However, having a flawed system isn’t an excuse for not paying for services rendered. I need tips to pay my bills. All waiters do. We spend an hour or more of our time befriending you, making you laugh, getting to know you, and making your dining experience the best it can be. We work hard. We care. We deserve compensation for that. I’m trying to stand up for all of us who work for just a few dollars an hour at places like Applebee’s. Whether it’s a chain steakhouse or a black-tie establishment, tipping isn’t optional. It’s how we earn our living.

I posted a picture to make people laugh, but now I want to make a serious point. Things like this happen to servers all the time. People seem to think that the easiest way to save money on a night out is to skip the tip. I can’t understand why they fired me over this. I was well liked and respected at Applebee’s. My sales were high, my managers had no problems with me, and I was even hoping to move up to management soon. When I posted this, I didn’t represent Applebee’s in a bad light. In fact, I didn’t represent them at all. I did my best to protect all parties involved. I didn’t break any specific guidelines in the company handbook… I checked. However, because this person got embarrassed that their selfishness became public, Applebee’s made it clear that they’d rather lose a dedicated employee than an angry customer. I can’t understand that policy.

I’m equally baffled about how a religious tithe is in any way related to paying for services at a restaurant. I can understand why someone could be upset with an automatic gratuity. However, it’s a plainly stated Applebee’s policy that they add tips automatically for parties over eight, like the one this customer was part of. I can’t control that kind of tip; the computer that processes the orders does it. People have stiffed me on tips before, but this is the first time I’ve seen the “Big Man” used as reasoning. Obviously, the person who wrote this note wanted it seen by someone. It’s strange that now that the audience is wider than just the server, the person’s ashamed.

I have no agenda here. I seek no revenge against the note writer. I have no interest in exposing their identity, and, at this point, I’m not even sure that I want my job back. I was just trying to make a joke, but I came home unemployed. I’ve waited tables to save up some money so I could finally go to college, so I could get an education that would qualify me for a job that doesn’t force me to sell my personality for pocket change. This story garnered immense media attention, but my story isn’t uncommon. Bad tips and harsh notes are all part of the job. They fire people to keep customers happy every day. As this story has gotten popular, I’ve received inquiries about where people can send money to support me. As a broke kid trying to get into college, it’s certainly appealing, but I’d really rather you make a difference to your next server. I’d rather you keep that money and that generosity for the next time you eat out.

1 February 2013

Chelsea Welch

The Guardian



When Pastor Alois Bell wrote a rude note along with a zero tip on her receipt at Applebee’s, she didn’t know her callousness would become a viral sensation. Her first response was to get the waitress who posted the receipt (and if possible, everyone she works with) fired. After that, she tried apologising… sort of. Neither response won the St Louis minister any fans.

3 February 2013

Huffington Post



Wednesday, 22 May 2013

“Grumpy Cat” Wins “Meme of the Year”

00 Grumpy Cat. 22.05.13

My contribution to the “Grumpy Cat” meme… fuggedaboutit!


Here’s the original Grumpy Cat


The “Grumpy Сat” won the 17th Annual Webby AwardsMeme of the Year”. The award ceremony took place on 22 May. Internet users favoured Grumpy Cat over the Harlem Shake, Goats Yelling Like Humans, and Gangnam Style by voting on the BuzzFeed website. Tandar Sause, known as Internet sensation Grumpy Cat, became popular after her owner posted her picture on the social news website Reddit and then superimposed with humorous comments. The female cat has a permanently grumpy face due to feline dwarfism and an under bite. She and her brother Pokey were born to normal parents with a flat face, bubble eyes, and a short tail. Ironically, Grumpy Cat is calm and Pokey has a grumpy personality. “The Official Grumpy Cat” on Facebook has over 930,000 Likes. The organisers announced the other Webby winners on 30 April. Such websites as Change.org, Pinterest, Tumblr, Dropbox, and The Onion won multiple awards. A Webby is an award for excellence on the Internet. It began in 1995 and presented annually by The International Academy of Digital Arts and Sciences. Categories include websites, interactive advertising, online film and video, and mobile. The award is one of the older internet-oriented awards and is known as “The Oscars of the Internet”.

22 May 2013

Voice of Russia World Service



Tuesday, 10 April 2012

Report Finds Porn Sites Account for XXX-tra Real Estate on Web… They Make Up 30 Percent of All Internet Traffic


One site, XVideos, gets 4.4 billion page views per month, making it twice the size of Reddit

XXX marks the spot on the Internet. Researchers found that a whopping 30 percent of all Internet traffic involves pornographic sites, with the biggest one notching three times the page views of CNN or ESPN, ExtremeTech reported. according to Google’s DoubleClick Ad Planner, that site, Xvideos, notches 4.4 billion page views per month, also making it twice the size of social media giant Reddit. However, porn sites aren’t just attractive to Internet users; they also boast (ahem) staying power. The typical news site has an average visit of between three and six minutes, according to Extreme Tech’s report. Meanwhile, the average time spent on a porn site, is somewhere between 15 and 20 minutes. Considering these sites deal largely with videos, even if they are low resolution videos… hey, production values aren’t the main draw… they host a vast amount of data. Reps for YouPorn, the second biggest sex site, told Extreme Tech that the site enjoys 100 million page views a day and transfers 950 terabytes daily. The bandwidth required to run all of those videos on YouPorn is roughly six times larger than Hulu. Based on those numbers, the report estimated that YouPorn accounts for 2 percent of Internet traffic and using that number, ExtremeTech calculates a conservative figure of 30 percent for all the pornography-related traffic on the Internet.

9 April 2012

Ethan Sacks

NY Daily News


Editor’s Note:

I find this hard to believe, as porno isn’t a “general” phenomenon… it’s a largely male-specific… ahem… movement. No… I’m not going to lambaste those who access porno… nor am I going to lament how society’s going to hell in a handbasket. If 30 percent of all Internet traffic were hard-core X-rated stuff, it’d mean that men spend about half of their time online viewing porno. I’m no cloistered nun, nor am I a depraved libertine… but there’s something about the 30 percent figure that just doesn’t smell “right”. I’d believe it if someone were to find that men spent 25 percent of their time online in “dirty book sites”… but to imply that men spend the majority of their time online in such sites is just… well… unbelievable. It sounds like a hard-core feminist fairy tale, to be frank. In any case, I think that smoking out and punishing sexual abusers is more important than chasing pornographers is… especially, if they wear riassas.

Is there a lot of porno out there? Sure… and not all of it’s online (including some rather vicious stuff). Just think, Pee Wee Herman was ahead of his time… perspirin’ minds wanna know… is Pee Wee still playin’ with his wee-wee? We’ll never know…


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